Monday, August 12, 2013

5 Steps Towards Greater Success


1. Think of something you want to create in your life. A success that you're moving toward.

2. Now, take a moment and think about one experience where you worked hard and were successful. Remember the feelings of elation and relief? How were you sitting or standing? Who were you talking to? Take a moment and take that posture. Feel the emotions coursing through you! Allow the energy to course through your arms and legs. Smile broadly. Allow yourself to fully experience all the feelings.

Remember how you thought you couldn't achieve it, and you did? Allow yourself to experience the memory: both the anxiety you felt that you wouldn't get it, and then the triumph!

3. Allow yourself to really soak up all the feelings

4. Think of two more instances when you got the very thing you were hoping for.

5. Now, go back to what you're hoping for. Allow the feelings of prior successes to flow through you and join with the wished-for success! :)

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This exercise is based on the (new age-y) book, Creating Money, by Sanaya Roman and Duane Packer, however, it's also supported by neuroscience. Our brains don't know the difference between what we see in front of us or in our minds (Antonio Damasio's research supports this).

When we recreate these positive experiences, we remind our minds (and bodies) that success is imminent, and the neural pathways in our minds that support these good outcomes are strengthened.

Which memories do you want to strengthen for your future?

P.S. I highly recommend this book for changing your experience of yourself in the world.

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Dr. Heather Schwartz is an integrative psychologist in private practice in Portland, Oregon who delights in working with warm and expressive people seeking greater connection, inspiration, and empowerment in their lives.